You are Worthy of Love

June 13, 2017

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"I am not pretty"
"I have pimples all over my face and my pores are very big"
"I can't rock a bikini"
"I am so fat"
"I do not have that "Coca-cola" body"
"I have waaaay too big eyes for my face"
"I am not smart enough"


And the list goes on. Heard yourself saying that, too?

I know that I am not the best person you would rather hear this from because 1. I, myself think of this sometimes, 2. I am not a good daughter of our Lord because I often skip church and stays away from fellowships, 3. there are days that I forgot to pray and 4. worst, there have been times that I question His plans for me. BUT, I am telling you this anyway. You are worthy of love because you are a child of God and He loves everything about you no matter what other people may say. He sees more than what people sees. He sees what's in your heart and still loves you. He gave His son for you. Do not take it for granted just because...

The boy you like does not like you back. I tell you, he is not the only boy in the world and he is certainly not the only boy you will like. You will meet thousands of great guys out there. Those guys will be a lot better than "the boy". And one of them is going to love every piece of you. Someone is going to see all your flaws and still thinks that you are beautiful and worthy of his time, efforts and love.

The job that you applied for have not accepted you because they are looking for some "face value" in their employees and they find you not that enough for them. Well, you deserve more than that. You deserve to be part of an organization that value skills more than the pretty face. You are much more than a pretty face. You have a lot to offer.

You feel that you can't rock a bikini just because somebody told you so. Shame on them. They are nothing to you anyway. What is important is that you feel good in whatever you are wearing. No one should define you other than yourself. And certainly, not all people's opinion matters. Embrace your body shape. Love your skin. Be confident.

Somebody told you, "You are fat and no one's going to like you." Love should not be defined by size. Love is more than that. Just because you are fat does not make you less lovable (and the same way goes to people who are too skinny). That person does not understand what love truly means if he/she only based it on what he/she sees outside. Love is all about seeing someone happy. Love is not skin deep.

The worst thing you could ever do to yourself and to Him is to think that you are not worthy to receive love from someone. Sure, there will be days that you will feel unworthy of all the things that He has given you and there will be days that you will feel sorry for yourself. But instead of looking at all of those flaws, why not look into those talents and gifts you have?

Do not belittle yourself, your self does not deserve that. Maybe there is always someone who will always be prettier than you are or better at some things but THERE ARE ALSO THINGS THAT YOU ARE BETTER THAN MOST PEOPLE ARE ON THE PLANET. Being not beautiful enough, not slim enough, not talented enough and all those words that you can find as an excuse, that should not be the reason why you feel unworthy. You are the best version of yourself, do not make it anything less by comparing yourself to others. You deserve to love and be loved in all ways you can imagine because you are loved by Him, all of Him. So darling, please stop worrying.


#IWriteToExpressNotToImpress

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